Kkz.. Gonna start working soon.. Hehe... Eve of National Day.. Hope not too many people..
Before I log off... Another secret of being a happy person from the book for u guys to read if i got no time to blog..
The book wrote: We assume that happy people are born that way. But both kinds of people do things that create and reinforce their moods. Happy people let themselves happy. Unhappy people continue doing things that upset them. Everything u do, u have to define its purpose and then create a strategy to accomplish that purpose. Ironically, children are better at this than adults. Small children know when being cranky will get them an ice cream cone. And they know when being too noisy will get them a cross reaction from their parents. Children understand that there are rules and predictable patterns to life and they use a strategy to help them get what they want.
Living a happy life as an adult is like trying to get that ice cream cone as a child. YOu need to knowwhat you want and use a strategy to get it. Think about what makes you hapy, what makes u sad, and use this to help u get what you want.
Happy people do not experince one success after another and unhappy people, one failure after another. Instead, surveys shouw that happy and unhappy people tend to have had way similar life experiences. The difference is that e average unhappy person spends more than twice as much time thinking about unpleasant events in their lives, while happy people tend to seek and rely upon information that brightens their personal outlook..
Haha.. So how izzit? So.. Dun keep thinking over unhappy things.. Look ahead yah.. Stay Happy forever.. =)